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Digital abuse and monitoring

Phones, location sharing, accounts and constant contact.

Digital abuse uses technology to monitor, pressure or humiliate. It is often framed as closeness — 'we share everything' — while functioning as surveillance.

  • Demanding passwords, or reading your messages and emails
  • Location tracking, or requiring photo proof of where you are
  • Expecting instant replies, with anger if you don't respond
  • Posting, threatening to post, or sharing private images
  • Controlling or impersonating you on your own accounts
  • Installing apps or devices that monitor you
If you think a device may be monitored, consider using a device the other person cannot access when looking for support. Our Safety & Privacy panel in the Abuse Journal has more on this.

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